Unlock New Levels of Connection Using The Erotic Blueprints™
Join in a transformational weekend with two events, an Erotic Blueprints™ BlissDance Introduction on Friday night, followed by the Embodied Intimacy one-day workshop, that guide you through a powerful exploration of consent, connection and intimacy—all through the natural expression of dance.
Whether you’re single, in relationship, or simply curious about deepening your understanding of self and others, this workshop offers you tools to unlock your erotic potential in a respectful, supportive and playful environment.
With two visiting facilitators, Claire Rumore (USA) and Stephen (Rayven) Tredrea (NZ), you’ll engage in guided movement, playful exploration, and deep reflection, using the Wheel of Consent, The Erotic Blueprints™, and Blissdance as frameworks for self-discovery and connection.
This is an opportunity to experiment and play outside of what’s familiar, exploring intimacy with yourself and others in a space that is held with care, presence, and consent.
What You Gain
Enhanced consent practices
Learn the fundamentals of Betty Martin’s Wheel of Consent, empowering you to make and receive bids for connection in a ways that feels good for everyone involved.
A deeper understanding of your own erotic blueprint
Discover how you naturally express and engage with your desires, and how to communicate those needs clearly and confidently.
Practical skills for navigating intimacy
Use conscious dance practices to explore vulnerability, connection, and trust, both with yourself and others.
A new framework for healthy, constructive relationships
Gain tools to engage in relationships—whether romantic, platonic, or professional—in a way that fosters mutual respect and pleasure.
Increased self-awareness and confidence
Feel more connected to your body and desires, allowing you to express yourself authentically and lovingly in any setting.
Why These Frameworks?
Wheel of Consent
The Wheel of Consent from Betty Martin is a revolutionary tool that helps people understand the dynamics of giving and receiving touch, power, and permission. This framework empowers you to make clearer choices, improve your ability to communicate boundaries, and help you engage in relationships in a way that feels good for you and others.
We introduce key practices from the Wheel of Consent, allowing you to experience what it feels like to truly give, receive, take, and allow—helping you navigate intimacy, connection, and desire with greater clarity.
The Erotic Blueprints™
Created by sex and relationship coach Jaiya, the Erotic Blueprints™ provide a language for understanding your personal erotic expression. Just as people have different love languages, we all have unique ways of experiencing and expressing desire. The five Erotic Blueprints™—Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter—help you:
- Discover your primary pathway to pleasure and what turns you on.
- Learn how to communicate your needs in a way that others can understand.
- Engage constructively with partners whose blueprints may be different from yours.
- Break free from habitual patterns and open up new ways of experiencing pleasure.
This workshop offers a playful and embodied exploration of your Erotic Blueprint™, using movement and dance as a way to express and integrate your discoveries.
Blissdance: A Journey of Movement and Connection
Blissdance is a conscious dance practice that allows you to explore movement, emotion, and intimacy in a deeply embodied way. Using breath, sound, and intuitive movement, you are guided into a sensory-rich experience of connection—both with yourself and with others.
Blissdance is not about performance or perfection—it is an invitation to drop into your body, let go of non-serving inhibitions, and allow yourself to move from an authentic place. Through this practice, you:
- Play with movement as a form of communication.
- Explore connection and vulnerability in a safely, held space.
- Engage in guided exercises that encourage authentic expression.
- Develop greater trust in yourself and your desires.
Blissdance serves as our primary medium of exploration, offering a somatic, embodied experience of the Wheel of Consent and the Erotic Blueprints™ in action.
Claire and Rayven share about consent, Erotic Blueprints™ and BlissDance in this workshop [listening time: 10:23]
Who Is This For?
- Those who desire more meaningful and intimate connections.
- People curious about the general intersection of sexuality, spirituality, and self-expression.
- Anyone wanting to explore their body and desires in a loving, consensual way.
- Individuals looking for new tools to enhance relationships and better align with their partner’s needs.
- Those seeking deeper insights into their own desires and how to communicate them effectively.
Meet Your Facilitators
Claire Rumore (United States of America)
Claire Rumore is an intimacy coach, erotic educator, and lifelong dancer who guides individuals and couples in exploring their multidimensional sexual, spiritual, and relational selves. She specializes in the Erotic Blueprints, Urban Tantra, and somatic sex coaching, and is a co-creator of Subtle Sexuality.
Rayven (New Zealand)
Rayven, known for his calm, grounded presence, opens spaces for authentic self-expression, deep connection, and purpose. Drawing from his own journey, Rayven encourages participants to slow down, be present, and move with inspiration and creativity—dancing with life’s possibilities, grounded in self-compassion, humility, and awe.
Both facilitators bring a wealth of experience in somatic practices, sexuality, consent, and conscious dance, creating an environment that is safe, supportive, and deeply transformative.
Event Logistics
Erotic Blueprints™: a Blissdance introduction
Date & Times
Friday 25 April | 6pm* - 9pm
* arrival from 6pm for a prompt 6.30pm start
Venue
15a Peterhof Road
Houtbay, South Africa
(Off-street parking available)
Cost
R350
Bring
Comfortable clothing you can move in
A water bottle
An open mind and willingness to explore!
Wheel of Consent, Erotic Blueprints™ & Blissdance Workshop
Date & Times
Saturday 26 April | 10am - 7pm
Venue
15a Peterhof Road
Houtbay, South Africa
(Off-street parking available)
Cost
R1000
Includes
Refreshments
Bring
Lunch (or visit one of the local eateries)
Comfortable clothing you can move in
A water bottle
An open mind and willingness to explore!
Frequently Asked Questions
No. Friday night's BlissDance is an introduction to the workshop, however you can attend only the Friday night, or only the one-day workshop on Saturday, or come to both!
Not at all! This workshop is about exploration, play, and embodiment, not choreography or technique. Whether you’re new to movement or already comfortable dancing, you are most welcome, and will be guided through exercises designed for all experience levels.
All exercises are built on consent and choice. You are encouraged to engage at your own comfort level. There will be structured invitations for partnered or group exploration, but you always have the option to observe, modify, or opt out.
No. This workshop explores erotic energy, desire, and connection, but there is no explicit sexual activity. The focus is on understanding your erotic blueprint, practicing consent, and engaging in embodied play through movement.
Absolutely! Partners often find this experience deepens their connection and understanding of each other. You’ll have the chance to explore together while also engaging in exercises with other participants, creating a rich and diverse learning experience.