An invitation to MEN: strength your vitality, and beautiful masculine presence, in life and love. Join me in a transformational journey, re-imagining and redefining our understanding and experience of our masculine sexuality, and how we express this in our relationships as deep connection, intimacy and love.
On Being Man is a multi-part experience for men, re-inventing sexuality as a source of dignity and well-being, that can be wholesomely expressed in loving and supportive intimate connections. It is a collective journey of self-discovery, breaking free from old damaging patterns, and gaining valuable insights for deepening the healthy relationships we long for.
Our backstory
We all grew up somewhat sexually dysfunctional. To the limited extend they were even available, our elders, guardians, teachers and mentors knew so little about their own sexuality, and barely even discussed it.
What chance did we really have
of reaching sexual maturity?
The little information we did receive may have been inflicted on us, veiled in mystery, or peppered with threats of intolerable, life-long suffering. Tainted as forbidden, yet highly desired, we’ve either avoided or suppressed our sexuality, or repeatedly engaged with meagre, barely satisfying experiences. Either way, a form of emotional shut-down that holds feelings of inadequacy and frustration, for ourselves and those we love.
Re-imagining Masculine Sexuality
What if our sexual experiences
could mature, becoming more intimate, connected, honouring, and respectful?
On Being Man offers a space to learn, grow, and navigate the complexities of masculinity, privilege, stereotypes, and the impact of decades of misinformation.
It’s about embracing a satisfying and fulfilling sense of sexuality that deepens love, intimacy, and emotional connection.
It reveals benefits of health, intimacy and orgasmic ecstasy in masculine sexuality, when reclaimed and established as an integrated, honoured and celebrated aspect of our being.
It’s what we wish our role models had known and shared with us in support of our sexual maturing!
What to expect
- Sharing and discussing hopes, fears, beliefs, and experiences of sexuality and intimacy, in the company and mutual support of men.
- Deconstructing previously held beliefs about masculine sexuality and sexual stereotypes, recognising the impact it’s had on our sense of self and our relationships.
- Discovering the positive, life-enhancing qualities of sexual energy and supportive practices.
- Learning how mindfulness and breath-awareness can support a greater connection to your sexuality, bring presence and vulnerability to intimacy.
- Rediscovering qualities of sensitivity and sensuality that contribute to your experience of pleasure and connection.
- Learning about emotional awareness and safety for support an expression of feelings that deepen intimate connection and emotional support.
- Learning practical exercises to build sexual energy, presence and awareness for your benefit, and for the benefit of your intimate relationships.
Previous participant feedback
I found it valuable on a personal level, and helpful towards my work on men’s groups.
It was a fantastic day for me, and much of what we covered has resonated very deeply within me. Thank you for your time and care, and authentic self.
Who is this for?
On Being Man is for those who identify with a masculine expression of sexuality and intimacy, and those who don’t (or have a damaged perspective of their masculine) and wish to bring this into a healthier, more affirming and balanced expressions of love, intimacy and sexual connection.
If you have a community or group you feel could benefit from this experience, it can be adapted for suitability to different age groups and cultural needs.
Upcoming Events
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